This time lets talk about the very basic thing in our life (at least in my opinion..) which is trust..
Question.. What is trust? --> Stupid question aite?
Many people take it easy.. maybe it is a simple thing in their mind...
Google it babes... you will find the answer...
But i know, you won't google it now.. here are some that i can get over the net..
1. Assured anticipation; dependence upon something future or contingent, as if present or actual; hope; belief
... and there is lot more...
But the thing here is about us...
When u're still small, who do u trust? of course our parents aite? Along the way, our parents have to trust us by teaching us to walk, talk and later walk the talk..
Even in our religion, the need of trust is compulsory.. (Islam kena beriman, iman tu ape? kepercayaan kan..? So kena percaya la kesemua rukun iman tu.... Kalau tak percaya, korang tanya la diri sendiri, kat mana Islam korang ni...)
Then we start with other things:
1. Why we choose buying certain things?
2. Why we pick someone during the election?
3. Why we gave phone number to someone?
4. Why we choose someone to hang out with?
5. Why we fall in love with someone?
6. Why we make love with someone?
For me, its all about trust.. If some of you didn't agree, then i respect your opinion... But i have my own trust on this... Even if you play poker also you need to trust in your cards... (Applicable for certain people only... he he)
Nice short story...
A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter:
"Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl said:
"No, Dad. You hold my hand."
"What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.
"There's a big difference," replied the little girl.
"If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."
In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours...
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter:
"Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl said:
"No, Dad. You hold my hand."
"What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.
"There's a big difference," replied the little girl.
"If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."
In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours...
So when it comes to talk the truth, some people might lost their trust in you if u tell the truth.. or it might be the other way around... So the point is not about the truth... its about the trust that we need to take care...
These are a few quote that i can pick up for all of you...
"I wanted people to trust me, despite anything they'd heard. And more than that, I wanted them to know me. Not the stuff they thought they knew about me. No, the real me. I wanted them to get past the rumors. To see beyond the relationships I once had, or maybe still had but that they didn't agree with."
- Jay Asher (Thirteen Reasons Why)
- Jay Asher (Thirteen Reasons Why)
“we’re never so vulnerable than when we trust someone - but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy.”
- walter anderson
- walter anderson
"What is Trust?
2 cannibales having sex with each other... "
- Friend's dirty joke book
2 cannibales having sex with each other... "
- Friend's dirty joke book
"It's easy to believe someone when they tell you exactly what you want to hear "
-Unknown
"Its not that i dont believe what your telling me...its just that ive trusted you so many times before that i just dont know what to believe anymore "
- unknown
- unknown
To trust someone you must trust oneself.
To trust oneself you have to have someone trust you.
To have someone trust you they have to take a chance.
To take a chance means to give oneself up to humiliation.
Thats the cycle of trust.
- ngarman
To trust oneself you have to have someone trust you.
To have someone trust you they have to take a chance.
To take a chance means to give oneself up to humiliation.
Thats the cycle of trust.
- ngarman
"Trust is a fragile thing. Once earned, it affords us tremendous freedom. But once trust is lost, it can be impossible to recover. Of course the truth is, we never know who we can trust. Those we’re closest to can betray us, and total strangers can come to our rescue. In the end, most people decide to trust only themselves. It really is the simplest way to keep from getting burned....."
It's not that i don't trust people , I just don't trust the devil inside them ! - MH3107
