Lie... Liar

Lie..

Is very subjective...

We lie... very few people in this world that are not lying to others...

Tell me... haven't we lie to our parents?

* I'm coming back a bit late today.. got classes.. (but we're bz doing something else)

* Its ok. I've already eaten.. (but my stomach is starving..)

To our friends?

* Hang on, I'm on the way.. (While we are still looking for car key..)

* Sure.. I can lend u some money... I Still got a few.. (Shit... I just left 10 bucks in my wallet)

To our teacher?

* My homework is done already, but i left the book at home (I better do it as soon as i got home)

* I don't know where he went, i didn't see him since morning.. (Hopefully they don't see me with my friend this morning)

To our bosses?

* Almost completed bos.. ( Shit.. a lot more to go..)

* I got an MC today, so icannot come to work.. (Lucky that clinic can buy an MC)

To our partners?

* I swear I will always love you... (Can I?)

* I'm coming home a bit late.. got meeting.. (Big Boss ask for karaoke la plak...)

So... tell me... aren't similar things happen to us?

People lie for a reason...

Kids lie to their parents so that their parent would not be worried about them..

We lie to our friends so that our friends will not get angry with us..

We lie to our teacher so that we didn't get punishment..

We lie to our bosses so that our scorecard is wonderful...

We lie to our partners to avoid bad incident occurred..

But that is on our judgement...

How about their judgement? It might be the same but most of the cases is totally contradict..

They want us to tell the truth but for us, if we tell the truth, it will give negative impact..

Consider this stories...

Love Partner: Will You love me forever?

* What would you say?

1. Yes I will (Lie) - The impact can be:

* Great. I love u forever too...

* You tipu I... Betul U sayang I? (and it will lead to other question..)

* And so many others

2. I cannot assure that (True) - And the impact will be?

* U ni... tak serius ke?

* U meman tak sayang i...

* Dan sebagainya... (am i right?)

There's another answer which to some people.. they will treat it i'm bluffing and to some others they will accept it rationaly...

"At this moment, I really love you.. I cannot assure what will happen in future but I pray this feeling is forever for u.."

To some people that is good enough.. But to some who read it very carefully, they still can manipulate the words..

* Yes.. the feeling is there... but how about feeling for other people? will it be there? will it be greater than me? "You think it yourself... a.k.a. Lu pikir la sendiri...."

Lie or not telling the truth - About the same aite?

We do it for a reason... Even our nick name over the internet we don't reveal the real we... Because? Security purposes aite? I got no issues with that... Name is not important... The topics and content are more valuable...

There is another issues... I'm talking the truth.. but.. not the whole stories...

This is the interesting part.. Whereby most of businessman, lawyers, players, always use it...

* I'm coming a bit late.. (But not mentioning the specific time)

* we will meet up after lunch.. ( Also no specific time given)

* I will always love you... ( Very subjective - refer to the case above)

* And a lot more...

Basically.. what ever people said is for a good reason according to them...

But the one who receive it will judge base on their understanding...

So... come back to the topic..

Lie.. and not talking the truth.. Or.. not telling the whole stories...

Whatever it is.. Like I always says... everything that is happened, is for good reason and only God knows what the reason is...

People can say what they want... And other people can judge whatever they want...

Clarification is very important in ensuring the message delivered successfully..

Remember..

"WORDS ONLY COMPRISE 7% OF THE TOTAL IMPACT OF A MESSAGE, WITH VOCAL TONES REPRESENTING 38% AND FACIAL ESPRESSION COMPRISING 55%".....

And that is why discussion need to be made face to face... not over the phone...

To my readers that have issues, I pray a very good luck to all of you..

I pause for now till i got time and issues that i can share...

But my time for you is always available provided appointment is there...

Take care...

Issues again

Hm...

My dearest reader..

It seems a lot of issues since i meet up with a few new friends lately...

Some got issues with their work but mostly with their life... I mean issues with the one that close with them...

My sister, have issues with her husband..

My friends also have issues with their partner..

My uncle, have issues with me...

But me... I don't have issues with anybody... (Am I?)

Let me share with you some stories...

There is a friend of mine.. which already divorce.. got 2 kids..

Reason of divorce, the husband is irresponsible.. no job, (which he had previously) but pretend in front of his mother that he has the job.. Poor the wife.. have to work and at the same time been treating like 'menghabiskan duit suami' by her mother in law..

Not only that.. Her issues became bigger when her parents also dismiss her from the house.. and her family... Its like a 'drama swasta' to me... (I think I've shared this stories before..)

Last night.. Ive heard she just had an operation because of ovarian cease.. Caused by an operation 13 years ago....

Satu satu masalah datang.. I felt very pit for her...

Then her employer are not willing to take the risk and terminate her...

What would u do if u're wearing her shoes?

Damm hard...

But when we start talking about life... it seems she feels a bit better...

And I know she is a very tough person...

But deep in her heart... I'm not sure if she is happy or just a fake smile i've seen in the face...

I just hope that she is having a great moments in her life....

To my friend that i mention in above stories and to all my other readers....

"live why you can because one day you might not have that life you cheerish so "....