People change...

I come across an article in one of the newspaper today which told us to beware of the changes of the one we love...

The content... is basically about changes of the people that we love... and it is specifically on partner.. What I mean is the one that we care and definately in the newspaper tells us about relationship between different gender. Some points that I remember... Nah... wait for a while... I go and get the newspaper.....

...... Ok... here it goes... 

Membaca sikap pasangan

"Menyedari si dia tiba tiba berubah sudah tentu menimbulkan rasa curiga. Sedang pantai lagikan berubah, inikan pula hati orang"

Well... the intro has already put you in caution aite?? No need for me to put in everything here... but the main points can be list out...

* Tiba tiba jadi terlalu sibuk

* Berubah menjadi terlalu setia dan romantik

* kerap ke luar daerah

* Terlalu banyak berahsia

* Berubah penampilan dan pendapat

That is the main point that has been carried out... if you want to know in details, you can read Harian Metro, today's date, section "Hati".

Before we go any further, the main point here is why people changed... For me, every people change... Even a small kids also change aite? So there is no big deal when people change.. People change because of their environment.. People change because they learn... But the most important thing is that people change because they want to... 

Think again... why do you like some people.. and why do you don't like certain people? And there are moment you like this particular people ad after some time then you are starting to get away from him/her.. Why? its because of the environment that makes you change your feeling... Maybe because of the influence of your friends or maybe the person itself no longer suits you very well... its either that person changed or you yourself are the one who start changing... 

That is basically about lovers relationship....

What about work? Life? Styles? 

People also change job.. People also change their living places.. In fact people also change the cigarrate that they smoke...

Even there are people that don't want to change, but not all in their life are still the same... there MUST be a changes... Maybe people don't want to change their clothes pattern but somehow they will change in other perspective...

Things change... everything changes.. but memories don't... and thats why it called history.. 

What if u love someone who do not love u in return?

This morning i receive a message thru my YM.... its a status of my special best friend and the quote sounds the same tone of the above title....

So I reply...

azzamman69: hm...

azzamman69: why must we expect somethinng in return?

azzamman69: we love because we want to love...

azzamman69: we give because we want to give..

azzamman69: if we get something in return, that is consider bonus

azzamman69: if we don't get, just take it as something that we give to other people

azzamman69: same goes to me when i like you..

azzamman69: but i didn't expect anything in return...

azzamman69: its just i love to like you.. and make u happy..

Basically.. people hurt most when they put hope... everything in life; Business, studies, family, friends, work, scandals, secret affairs, second wife, widow, children, parents etc etc is full of hope.. But there are people who does not put hope in everything they do... they work it out the best they can and pray for the best result... If the result is good, then its good for them. If no good, then need to analyze where is the mistake.. Analyze... not blame...

Everything you do everyday is on your own choice.. you choose to go to work or continue your sleep.. you choose to love or not to love.. you choose to meet up people or not... and you choose to break up with someone or to continue.. and basically, everything you do is at your own choice... 

People influence you?? Taht is your mistakes.. why must you be influence... you have the right to make decision.. no matter whatever people told you.. you choose your own options... 

And i took the option to wrote today because it is my decision... and I'm responsible for it...

Responsible in my terms may not the same with your terms... Maybe to me I'm not responsible for publishing new post... but to e, I got other much more important responsiblilites.. More opportunity to explore, more eyes contact with people who needs help, more 'Pak Seri Siantan' session... and so it goes...  

I got option to hide my number as people misuse it.. but then... here I'm giving back the opportunity for people to have a free drinks session and some not so bed time stories to share... Provided the availability is something can be compromise.. Take care..!

Dreams..

Talking about dreams.. some are nice and some are not so nice...

Some people love to dreams.... maybe in their real life is not that nice...

In your dreams you can do anything... without worrying the consequences.. 

In your dreams also you can meet with anybody.. Either they are still alive or in the other world..

Hm... maybe we get a clue why people love to dreams...

But wake up!! we're are not in that fantasy where you can get whatever you want...

its reality bro... there are good things happen and there are bad things happen... but that makes us more matured isn't it? Stop relying on others.. we were born alone and will die alone... nobody want to die with you and if there is any, i doubt it will last long... at that moment... yes... anybody can say that.. people will intend to support u... well... that what friends are for aite? but be carefull... the most dangerous people is the one who is always say true on whatever u said..

Life can take your dreams and turn them upside down, friends will talk about you when you're not around, reality can really cut you down to size, but don't ever loose the light in your eyes. 

People make you promises they'll never keep, soon you'll know why people say talk is cheap, life resembles one big compromise but don't ever lose the light in your eyes .

Lyrics

Today I've come across a few interesting lyrics...

Just want to share it with you all... chill...

Mantera Beradu

Masih belum sempurna.. 

Gerakkan Hati... Hati gerakkan... 
Pandanglah aku.. aku lah dia.. 

kulitku tebal.. ku kebal.. ingatku kebal.. 
hanya berbual makan angin kembung perut mual... 
resah dan tidak senang.. hidup tak pernah lenang.. 
ku schizo paranoia takut pecah tembelang 

pecah tembelang... peta dah hilang... 
bangau dah pulang... suara sumbang.. 

lidahku kaku tak selicin kuku 
teman baikku buku 
bini ku pena.. tak pernah lena 
aku suka mengintai pantang ditenung 
berakhir pertelingkahan dalaman 
pasti belum 

ikut gerak hati.. pena melayang 
dilihat dua layang pandang 
tak lah sekarang 
takat meradang 
tanya.. abang gedang, apa barang? 
badan macam badang 
main macam belakang parang 

kuhunuskan keris musuh ada pistol 
tradisi kekalkan adaptasi harus betul 
tujuh baris keramat tujuh garis penamat 
baik berpada biar jahat asal selamat 

ramai saudaraku yang baik telah dipijak 

awan mendung yang berarak 
bawa tangis bawa resah 
rebah rindu yang terkumpul 
semua birat dan kalimah 
semua janji yang terikat 
lebur disisimu 

yo ijazah terbaik datangnya dari jalanan 
dari pengalaman bercakap dan bersalaman 
konflik motivasi cuba medatasi 
positif dan benci jadi inspirasi pagi 

peduli itu interpretasi basi pekakkan sebelah 
halang biar keduanya muka cantik 
soalan bodoh yang ditanya jadi melodinya 
lebih hina dari zina 

lu bikin dosa ku bikin prosa 
testosterone testarosa 
citacita sosa kl kl kosa nostra 
jalan berliku ku harung roller coaster 
gah sentosa tiada penyesalan 
luas pandangan jauh dah berjalan 
tak sempurna masih ada kejanggalan 
gagal merancang, merancang kegagalan 

awan mendung yang berarak 
bawa tangis bawa resah 
rebah rindu yang terkumpul 
semua birat dan kalimah 
semua janji yang terikat 
lebur disisimu 

kucing bawa tidur rimau bawa igau 
masuk tempat orang bawa otak bukan pisau 

naik bukit angkuh cakap ayah jangan risau 
turun bukit pucat dengar tiga miaww 
kucing bawa tidur rimau bawa igau 
masuk tempat orang bawa otak bukan pisau 

tolak pintu gua tiga kerat tenaga 
kosong tak dijaga sampai datang tiga naga 
ingat nak berlaga tapi tak kan boleh menang 
menang dengan otak tak mesti dengan pedang 

sebelum jadi bangkai ikan koi renang renang 
pura pura salah jawapan untuk naik berang 
panggil lima kawan atau biar pergi laju 
risaukan pekara remeh kita tak akan maju 
muka sama hijau hati siapa tahu 
merah dah menyala pasti mati siapa mahu 
gagap tiga kali bercakap benar saja 
bulan terang ramai yang keluar buat kerja 

panjat pokok buluh cari tukun air terjun 
naik sampai nampak dah terpegun turun 
tiga ular ikut lompat atau paut 
kalau lari mati jika jerut maut 

awan mendung yang berarak 
bawa tangis bawa resah 
rebah rindu yang terkumpul 
semua birat dan kalimah 
semua janji yang terikat 
lebur disisimu 

puisi hati mu... hati mu puisi 
palu hati ku palu hatiku 

kulit tak besalin walau saling ganti baju 
pandang sini pandang sini 
ku berbahasa baku kata kata nahu 
himpun jadi satu 
mantera beradu dengan irama dan lagu 

akhirnya sempurna....